I ordered the save the dates!
They are beautiful and exactly not what I thought I would want. But they are perfect.
O and I have been engaged for 6 months. It seems unreal that for half a year I have been going crazy over a wedding that is still 7 months away. But now we have reached a milestone- we are close enough to start buying the save the dates! I feel like the save the dates are one of the best parts of a wedding. It is a little preview. The save the date is a glimpse of the couples personalities. Save the dates are like previews to a movie. They get you hyped for the fun and entertainment the wedding will provide you in a short amount of time. It is the climax.
Our save the date was not something I expected I would pick. I had spent 2 months looking at save the date templates. I knew I had to have them ordered by the second week of June so I would have 4 weeks to label, stuff, and send them out. Four weeks may sound excessive but when you are working a part time summer internship and enrolled in a qualitative research course the other half of the time, you want to give yourself plenty of time to fall behind. I tend to be courteous to future Sarah.
I had asked friends, family, and O for their suggestions when I was searching for a save the date. Everyone gave me great advice but in the end, O and I made the final decision. We liked how simple and elegant this save the date was. I appreciate having multiple people step up to give me their design advice and suggestions! It was really helpful. I must thank my cousin, my bridesmaid, who’s wedding I will be a bridesmaid in 2 months for providing me so much help, even though she has her own stuff to take care of (and much sooner I might add). I am learning how to ask and stop feeling guilty.
We used a picture from our engagement photo session. The photo we picked was one of the first photos I saw, and I knew right away that would be our photo. The best is the story behind the picture. As our photographer was changing settings, O started to pick me up and swing me around, for no reason. Our photographer happened to catch the end of it on film and said “smile!” It was such a spontaneous moment and explains our relationship and us as individuals.
I still have to find a cake baker and ceremony music and I can check my wedding tasks off my list for the month of June! It feels good to be right on schedule.